My apology comes with an explanation. I've become a terrible blogger. Since starting both blog and Youtube vlog, I seem to be finding it difficult to dedicate equal amounts of time to both. Previously I was terrible at vlogging but now I seem to have neglected this. So this week I promise a proper blog post.
We all have moments in our love lives and relationships where it will be put to the test. For me, the test is a 900 mile distance. Not the easiest situation but one i'm willing to work hard at. So these are some of my tips for anyone who sees themselves facing a similar situation the future.
It’s been almost 2 months since my last post – how neglectful
of me! It’s been a pretty busy period work wise but no excuses. I’ve actually
had this blog post lined up in my mind for some time but actually getting
around to writing it was avoided.
At least Tivoli dressed up for Halloween
So typically around the end of October, the pumpkins appear
in full force and I start to get excited for Halloween. I’m a sucker for fancy
dress, especially the ghoulish kind. I know Halloween is seen as ‘Americanised’
but I’ve always enjoyed it and wish I was still at an age for trick or treating
to be acceptable. Here in Denmark however, the fever of Halloween isn’t quite
as strong. Decorations popped up here and there, along with some seasonal gifts
in the shops and bakeries but it pretty much ends there. Back at home, we would
be finding or organising a Halloween party. so on October 31st, my
neighbour (also a fellow Brit) and I were left a little home-halloween sick,
and resorted to pumpkin carving and watching The Nightmare Before Christmas (a
must watch every year), so it turned out a good night.
Pumpkin time!
November 1st however is a much bigger date in the
Danish calendar, and something I’ve never experienced before. ‘J-dag’ (or
J-day) in the day that Carlsberg, the most prominent beer producer in Denmark,
release their Julebryg (Chistmas beer) for the season. I first heard of it when
one of the Danes from my course sent us a video, stating ‘the snow would be
falling at 8pm’:
Feeling a bit baffled, I went to do some research. The video
is an advert that was first released about 30 years ago? (I may be a bit wrong
with the timings) but seems to have stuck as a tradition to the Danish like the
Coca-cola Christmas advert in my memories. What is meant by the snow falling at
8 would be that the beer would officially go on sale in bars, clubs and shops at
this time. So I thought – lets go see what the hype is all about!
The beer has arrived!
We arrived around 7.30pm and ordered a pre-‘j-dag’ beer as
we waited. Then just before 8, we spotted a blue and white spotted van pass the
window and we followed it with a large crowd. It stopped at a bar just around
the corner from us, where this happened:
This supposedly was happening at different bars are certain
times in the night. Trucks were driving around and stopping at particular bars
on a route, so we were very lucky to have been at one just by chance! Into the bar they went, handing out some free
julebryg’s and Santa hats. Numbers were limited, and it was first come first
serve – but with numbers quadrupling the typical size of this bars clientele,
you had to fight. I succeeded in a beer (not a hat) but we celebrated our gains.
We returned to the first bar for a little while, before deciding to move
elsewhere when suddenly the Blue Santa’s entered the bar we were in. Here, I
gained a hat and another beer, along with a flashing stick thing (a useful prop
for sword-fights as we discovered later).
Free beer!
I dressed for the occasion...
The beer itself is nice, darker and slightly stronger in
percentage to typcal Tuborg/Carlsberg – but also tastes sweeter than the
former. Being a brand, it’s not the cheapest drink, but there are plenty of ‘knock-off’
versions in supermarkets that don’t taste too dissimilar.
All in all, a fun night. I’ve heard they also release an
Easter beer too but its not celebrated in quite the same way. Since that night,
blue and white decorations have been popping up (even in the airport) and I
still have my Santa hat to get me feeling festive. So see you next year, J-dag!
Just a quickie to say i've started a new 'series' on my YouTube channel. I want to post some videos about the different areas of Copenhagen, what they are like and what you can find there (in brief). I thought I would start with my own neighbourhood Østerbro. I hope you enjoy :)
So it’s Thursday night, I’m home alone and I’ve just
finished watching the Dexter finale (as disappointed with the ending as I am?).
So pretty much a perfect time to write again. A combination of 2 things
inspired today's post: the first was an instagram photo entitled ‘Throwback Thursday’,
a new concept to me and the second was an old photo I stumbled across in a
stack of photos of my mum, sister and a 14 year old me. Just a few moments
while I cringe…
Learning to laugh at yourself: Christmas 2006
If you haven’t figured it out, I’m the chubby blonde on the
right. I’m only half joking with that comment too, as some people have
genuinely asked me which one is me. It had to make me wonder… have I really
changed that much? Yes my hair is a different colour, I’ve lost some weight and
my fashion sense have significantly improved (hopefully), but it’s something I assume
everyone experiences and because I am still the same person to me, I don’t really
see the change that much.
Another golden find courtesy of my sister (2008)
I remember telling someone who meant a lot to me at the time
that no matter what, I would never change as a person. I genuinely meant it.
When I uttered the words at 17, I didn’t want my life to change because I felt
it was perfect (I guess that shows my naivety at that age), but in the 7 years
from when the top photo was taken to present day me, I was always going to
change even if I didn’t want to. It’s like that moment on pokemon when you’ve built
up a repport, mastered it’s moves and then suddenly evolves – WHY?! (Ok, apologies
for the geeky reference).
In the last six years I’ve left school, completed 2 years at
college and 3 years of university. I’ve made friends and lost them, been in
love, then heartbroken and somehow found love again. I’ve moved counties and
even countries. I’ve experienced a lot of new and exciting things but also the
loss of others and at times a loss of myself (perhaps a bit too deep for this blog?).
Basically my point is – how could I have not changed?!
A sort of evolution through photos
It’s weird, the evolution of a person. It seems slow but it’s
actually quite quick. I’m approaching the age of 22 and I still don’t see
myself as a true adult. Perhaps it will come with time, or perhaps I will never fully accept it. However what I will accept is that I will change again in the
future. Some of my core principles have become concrete with time:
1.Shit happens – sometimes you can control it,
sometimes you can’t but the fact is you have to accept it, deal with it and get over it.
2.Try and be as positive as possible and brush of
the negatives as quickly as possible
3.I will become a crazy cat lady
I have learnt these through my experiences. My life
will change and so parts of me will change too. But as with core principle one: I
have to accept and deal with it. My message to others is embrace change - it's going to happen so make it a positive thing. Sorry about the serious post, I have a more
light-hearted, Denmark based one to follow soon ;)
Byeee for now!
P.S. since on the change topic – I’m attempting to return to
my natural hair colour very soon. Results will appear soon (probably ginger though..).
My next vlog about homesickness is up. I have been sick this week with what I believe is that flu - bed bound for most of it. I am finally recovered though (although feeling sick today - but that was self inflicted from too much alcohol...).
